Uplift and Liberate

A program for those mothers seeking spiritual liberation from the ghosts of past traumas

Experience a holistic transformation from trapped emotions to rejuvenated spirit.

DPRR Release Workshop

A dedicated session using the DPRR technique to release trapped emotions from past trauma, transforming dread into power and rejuvenating the spirit.

Emotional and Physical Wellness Plan

Tailored plan addressing physical, mental, and emotional symptoms that result from suppressed emotion. Includes practical goals to ensure improved awareness and better health.

Self-Esteem Rejuvenation Experience

Guided journey to reestablish self-esteem. Through processes of love, acceptance, and self-reconciliation, restore your sense of worth and revive your inner strength.

About Me

Sheila Wood, an Intuitive Healing Coach with a PhD in Clinical Pathology, holds a distinct space in trauma healing. Her unique fusion of energy healing, mediumship, and Akashic Record insights with her academic alignment creates prolific healing environments. Rooted in a mission to heal the generational echoes and lifetime impacts of sexual assault trauma, Sheila's method locates and liberates deeply ingrained, often physically expressed, emotions. Her integrative approach serves those plagued by remnants of harrowing experiences, offering them liberation from embedded traumas and a path to transformative healing.

"Sheila is compassionate and generous in her approach to healing. She helped me make progress with a sleep issue that is long standing and very hard to treat. Her down to earth and non-judgmental perspective offers a safe space to share. Her insight and intuition helped me make some important changes in my life. I am so grateful to have connected with her at this important time"

- Amanda. - Ontario Canada

"Sheila helped me connect deeply to each question that I had as she connected with an energy which allowed her to reveal truths which left me feeling inspired and hopeful. I would recommend Sheila to anyone who is seeking greater insights or clarity in their lives. Her method not only reveals the truth, but she also assists to clear out any confusion and blocks."

- Sib. - Detroit Michigan

"Sheila Wood is extremely gifted and what's more she is diligent about her craft, making highly intuitive, well organized, and effective strides in guiding her clients to a truer understanding of self and life challenges. In just two sessions of one and a half hours each, Sheila was able to guide me through an Akashic reading that revealed the emotions and personal commitments that were getting in the way of my full joy and expression. Her reading uncovered blocked and stagnant emotions that once cleared allowed me to change longstanding unwanted and self-sabotaging behaviors. After almost thirty years of struggling to quit smoking, the information she revealed to me was instrumental in allowing me to understand the ways in which smoking was serving some basic personal and emotional needs, thus allowing me to perceive my habit in a more compassionate way. This led me to lose all attachment to my smoking, and within two weeks I had successfully and effortlessly relinquished my habit."

- Lillian. - New Jersey, USA

"Sheila did an Akashic Records reading on me. I had many questions. One of them being why my hair would not grow past my shoulders. Months later and my hair is now past my shoulders! Sheila worked out some issues that were on my mind. Sheila is very compassionate and not at all judgmental and is very patient and understanding. I will definitely refer friends and family to Sheila she helped opened up my eyes as I continue on my spiritual journey. Sheila is also a wonderful author. I just ordered her new book "Waiting for Elijah". It has great reviews and I am looking forward to a good read. "

- Jeanette.

"I have worked with Sheila for Akashic Records for a couple of sessions as of now, and I must say she is just amazing! Apart from being deeply intuitive, she is a very safe, compassionate and a playful healer! In just two sessions I released SO much of my energetic patterns that were stuck in my system since childhood. She addressed the exact areas that were needing attention and guided the sessions gently and beautifully. I felt effortlessly connected and heart-centered in her presence. I would highly recommend working with Sheila to anyone who wants to be lovingly guided towards more ease and freedom by releasing stuck energy out of the system"

- Rachana. - Memphis Tennessee

"I tried the EFT and was awestruck. It has changed my days completely. I feel as though I have some control over my life. Just doing these techniques has helped me to release anxiety and other emotions that have caused me distress. I would highly recommend doing a session or two with Sheila. You will be pleasantly surprised."

- Ella. - North Carolina

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Embracing Your Traumatic Experience with Love and Abandon: A Journey of Healing and Empowerment

Embracing Your Traumatic Experience with Love and Abandon: A Journey of Healing and Empowerment

May 09, 20246 min read

Traumatic experiences have the power to shatter our sense of security, leaving us feeling lost, broken, and disconnected from ourselves and others. However, amidst the pain and turmoil, there lies an opportunity for profound healing and transformation. 

In this blog post, we will discuss how to embrace your traumatic experience with love and abandonment, reclaim your power, and re-write your story from one of victimhood to one of resilience and empowerment.

Understanding Trauma and Its Impact

Trauma is a complex and multifaceted experience that can have profound effects on every aspect of a person's life. By understanding the nature of trauma and its impact, people can begin to navigate the healing process more effectively. 

Here's a breakdown of the various dimensions of trauma:

1. Emotional Distress:

Trauma often triggers intense emotional responses such as fear, anger, sadness, shame, and guilt. These emotions can be overwhelming and pervasive, disrupting one's ability to regulate their feelings and cope with daily life. Understanding the emotional impact of trauma is crucial for validating survivors' experiences and providing appropriate support and intervention.

2. Physical Symptoms:

The effects of trauma are not limited to the realm of emotions; they can also manifest in physical symptoms. Survivors may experience headaches, insomnia, fatigue, muscle tension, and gastrointestinal issues as a result of the physiological stress response triggered by trauma. Recognizing the physical manifestations of trauma helps people address both the psychological and physiological aspects of healing.

3. Cognitive Distortions:

Trauma can distort our thoughts and beliefs about ourselves, others, and the world. Negative cognitions such as "I am not worthy," "I am unlovable," or "I am unsafe" may emerge as a result of traumatic experiences, perpetuating feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. Identifying and challenging these cognitive distortions is essential for rebuilding self-esteem and restoring a sense of agency and self-worth.

4. Disconnection from Self and Others:

One of the most profound effects of trauma is the disconnection it creates between survivors and themselves, as well as with others. Trauma erodes trust, intimacy, and vulnerability, making it challenging for survivors to form and maintain meaningful relationships. Understanding the impact of trauma on interpersonal dynamics helps people navigate issues such as boundary-setting, communication, and intimacy in their relationships.

5. Impact on Identity and Self-Concept:

Trauma can profoundly impact survivors' sense of identity and self-concept, leading to feelings of confusion, alienation, and fragmentation. Survivors may struggle to make sense of their experiences and reconcile them with their sense of self, leading to a loss of coherence and continuity in their identity. 

Embracing Your Traumatic Experience

While trauma can leave deep wounds, it also offers an opportunity for profound healing and growth. Embracing your traumatic experience with love and abandonment involves:

1. Acknowledging Your Pain:

The first step in embracing your traumatic experience is to acknowledge and validate your pain. This means allowing yourself to fully recognize and honor the emotions that arise from your trauma, whether it's anger, sadness, fear, shame, or grief. By acknowledging your pain, you create space for healing and transformation to take place.

2. Practicing Self-Compassion:

Practicing self-compassion is essential for navigating the shadows of trauma with love and abandonment. Treat yourself with kindness, understanding, and patience as you navigate the challenges of healing. Recognize that you are doing the best you can with the resources you have and that healing is a gradual and nonlinear process. 

3. Seeking Support:

You don't have to go through the healing process alone. Seek support from friends, family, or support groups who can offer emotional validation and encouragement. Consider seeking professional help from therapists, counselors, or support groups specializing in trauma recovery. Surround yourself with people who validate your experiences and support your healing journey.

4. Reconnecting with Your Body:

Trauma often leads to a disconnection from our bodies as a means of self-protection. Reconnecting with your body through practices such as mindfulness, yoga, or body-based therapies can help you reclaim a sense of safety and embodiment. 

Listen to your body's cues and honor its needs with compassion and care. Engaging in activities that promote body awareness and self-expression can help you reclaim a sense of agency and autonomy over your physical being.

5. Reframing Your Narrative:

Take ownership of your story by reframing your narrative from one of victimhood to one of resilience and empowerment. Recognize that you are not defined by your traumatic experiences, but rather by how you choose to respond to them. Focus on the strengths, skills, and resources that have helped you survive and thrive in the face of adversity. 

6. Cultivating Resilience:

Cultivating resilience is essential for embracing your traumatic experience with love and abandonment. Resilience is the ability to bounce back from adversity and grow stronger in the process. Focus on building resilience by nurturing positive coping strategies, fostering a sense of optimism and hope, and finding meaning and purpose in your journey. 

7. Practicing Forgiveness:

Practicing forgiveness is a powerful tool for releasing the grip of trauma and reclaiming your sense of agency and freedom. Forgiveness does not mean condoning or excusing the actions of those who have harmed you; rather, it's about freeing yourself from the burden of resentment, anger, and bitterness. 

8. Engaging in Meaning-Making:

Engaging in meaning-making post-trauma involves reflecting on how your experience has shaped you, finding purpose, and using it to help others. By transcending victimization, you empower yourself to live a life of purpose. This journey of embracing trauma with love and abandonment is about reclaiming power, rewriting your story, and finding resilience and empowerment within.

9. Honoring Your Journey:

Honoring your journey involves recognizing and acknowledging the progress you have made in your healing process. Celebrate your resilience, courage, and growth, no matter how small or incremental it may seem. Be gentle with yourself on days when the healing feels challenging, and celebrate your victories, no matter how small. 

10. Embracing Self-Discovery:

Trauma can be a catalyst for profound self-discovery and transformation. Embrace this opportunity for growth by exploring new interests, passions, and aspects of yourself that may have emerged as a result of your experiences. Take time to reflect on your values, beliefs, and priorities, and consider how your trauma has influenced your identity and sense of purpose. 

Conclusion

Embracing trauma with love and abandonment is a journey of self-discovery, healing, and empowerment. By acknowledging pain, practicing self-compassion, seeking support, reframing your narrative, and finding purpose, you rewrite your story from victimhood to resilience. Healing is a journey; you possess the strength to navigate through trauma and emerge stronger and wiser.

FAQs

1. Is it possible to heal from traumatic experiences?

Yes, healing from trauma is possible with time, support, and self-care. Therapy, support groups, and mindfulness practices can all contribute to the healing process, allowing people to reclaim their sense of empowerment and resilience.

2. How can I begin to embrace my traumatic experiences?

Start by acknowledging your pain and allowing yourself to feel it without judgment. Practice self-compassion and forgiveness, explore self-discovery techniques such as therapy or journaling, and seek support from trusted friends, family, or professionals to guide you on your healing journey.

3. Will embracing my traumatic experiences make me feel worse?

Facing trauma is tough, but embracing it with love can lead to healing. Acknowledge your pain to move forward stronger.

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